I read her blog posted on Thursday, July 16, 2009

And surprisingly, what she wrote is so true. Hit right on the spot.


Guys, read it carefully and understand it. Girls hate it so much if you're one of 'those'.



and one of the commentator commented " Those who like to stare, sebenarnya kan.... they were virtually undressing you in their minds. Caya tak? Caya tak? Hehe.. "


'they were virtually undressing you in their minds'

how sick is that? gosh...


let me quote back some(not all) of what she wrote in case you can't find that post.


Our bodies are our very own wonderlands and unless you’re our husbands or boyfriends, just keep your opinion to yourself. Tak perlu sibuk nak beritahu, “I think this shirt makes you look fat” or “I think you look better in skirts” dan seumpamanya. Such comments connote that anda memandang kami, and that makes us, or at least me, uncomfortable. Lebih teruk lagi, jika komen ialah secara terang-terangan seperti “You nampak berisi sekarang.” Tolonglah berhenti dari bersikap busuk sebegini.


Janganlah bertepuk tampar kalau jelas perempuan itu tak selesa bersosial sebegitu. The same dispatch boy I told you about tadi, he once pissed my friend off sebab dia jenis suka pegang-pegang kalau bercerita. Mesra sangatlah konon? Satu hari my friend tak tahan, she shouted at him, “Kau kalau bercerita tak pegang-pegang bahu aku tak boleh ke? Kau ingat aku tak pakai tudung, aku tak peduli ke?” Padan muka. Merah muka dia. Nak cover malu, gelak-gelak dan cakap my friend was being dramatic.


Please do not stare. We hate guys who stare. At least I do. They make me feel uncomfortable. The dispatch boys at my firm (oh my, kenapalah banyak sangat masalah aku dengan budak-budak dispatch?) by jam 5, dah melepak kangkung at one corner of the office, and all they do are talk and stare. Talk and stare and stare some more. I hated having to pass by them to go to the toilet or library because they stare. They stare semua orang! Even the makcik-makcik, the pregnant ladies and yeah, even the boss. Ngeks.


I guess, in a nutshell, you guys should just learn when to keep your mouth shut, where to look and where to put your hands; then perhaps you’ll be okay in my book.

taken from here